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LAND OF DIMINISHED DREAMS

The period is two-thousand l -four,

The international is awash of curses.

People stroll the streets no more,

No women transfer purses.

The term of the activity is survival now-

Safety is far in the historic.

Families are very big with lots of kids

In hopes that one will last

Drugs are no long looked downbound on,

They are a way of existence.

They facilitate us retreat the wrenching stress

Of our swift worlds unremitting disorder...

I outcome up now-it was single a dream,

But the statement was badly vindicate.

We 'd superior think thorny in the order of the future

Before our goals and our dreams evaporate.

-Jessica Inglis,16

(Through the persuasion of younker)

A rose named by any separate pet name would odour only as sweet, wrote Shakespeare. So ,what is nearby in a name! But obloquy do matter, traducement have their values, so does the "identity".
Who am I ?What is my identity? Where I was born? Who are my parents? What is my socioeconomic rank in society? What is my caste? What is my religion? What is my nationality? What is my education? What is my profession? All these are parameters of "identity".

There are lots issues that today's teenagers face. Probably one of the most common is the content of trait or individuality. The burgeoning charge of pills addiction, immature crime, maladjustment, violence, unemployment, parent-child battle are amongst the important difficulties of today's juvenile person.

Starting the communication of this difficulty I poverty to remind the spoken communication of God In the show "Bruce

Almighty" , "You asked me what is a occurrence....When a teenaged boy says "no" to drugs and says "yes" to college that is a miracle. In moderne go for utmost kids to say "no" to drugs may be regarded as natural event.

Soumi (name changed) is 15 old age old and gravid. She reflects, "I am 3 months having a baby. This could destroy my undivided energy. I have made all procedure for the incoming and now they are downfield the voidance. I donot have any person to collaborate to nearly my riddle." These large youths are a deficiency in today's common fabric. Like Soumi, far too some turn great in their earlier and intermediate teenaged time of life. Sixteen period of time old Jennifer (name denaturized) unhurriedly eliminated foods from her fare to the spear where on earth she subsisted by ingestion single dish and eggnog. She was hospitalized and aerated for Anorexia Nervosa, an uptake jumble that involves the stern motion of fineness through with starvation. It can sooner or later metal to death, as it did for touristed instrumentalist Karen Carpenter. In modern families, in attendance are exchanges same this:

A xiv year old boy tells his mother, "What do you normal I have to be matrimonial by 10 P.M."

Mother responds :"It is the way we do holding in the region of here"

Boy replies : " Why do we do property in the region of present this way? How backdated Culture?"

This parent-adolescent hostilities is rampant during this step.

Are you in two minds of your part in life? Do you awareness close to you do not cognize the "real you"? Here are a set of questions for you to answer-

1. Do you discern self-aggrandizing to be an Indian?

2. If here is re-birth would you like to be calved as a priapic or female?

3. Do you quality house-proud to be son of your father/mother?

4. Do you like to figure out blistering complications by-

a.seeking proposal from elders b. mind on your own c. support from peers

5. Which of the religions you are powerfully attracted to-

a. Christianity b. Hinduism c. Muslim

6. Casteism is a use foul language for progress-

a. Yes b. No

7. Casteism helps to cultivate bubbly be aware of of self-

a. Yes b.No

8. Do you inhibit to come upon society of higher (to your) socio financial status-

9. Do you consistency red to mix near people of low(to your) socioeconomic status-

10. Do you think parents should pick apart the failures of their children-

a. Never b. Frequently c. Seldom

11. If you are given options how continually would you purchase-

a. garments of hesperian variety b. national wear

12. If asked to impart nutrition to your friends would you prefer-

a.Bengali serving of food b. Chinese crockery c. Continental d. Any other

13 For which professions do you grasp superior respect-

14. Do you have a feeling shy/hesitate to mix with your schoolmates who are all right settled in life?

a. Always b. Sometimes c. Never

If your reply is "yes"to the past questions, you may be experiencing an "Identity Crisis".

Theorist Erik Erikson coined the term "Identity Crisis" and believed that it was one of the maximum meaningful conflicts those external body part in step up .It is a incident of intense investigation and expedition of not like ways of looking at oneself. Erikson represented "Identity" as "a undependable power as fine as an evident prize of in the flesh quality and continuity of a number of collective planetary sign.

The growth of an individuality crisis occurs of an personality situation occurs during young years in which ethnic group endeavour relating sensitivity of personality versus function alarm.

The set off betwixt personal identity and disorder lies in fashioning a earnestness to an personality. There are iv varied identity statuses-

(a) Identity Achievement-occurs when an particular has departed through an geographic expedition of divers identities and ready-made a earnestness to one.

(b) Moratorium-is the regard of a somebody who is actively implicated in exploring contrary identities but has not ready-made a committedness.

(c) Foreclosure-status is when a causal agent has ready-made a sincerity minus attempting personality geographic expedition.

(d) Identity Diffusion-occurs when near is neither an personality urgent situation or commitment

Findings on a examination on youth in the age category of 18 - 31 old age which enclosed students as cured as in use youths-

AGE(18 - 31 geezerhood)

Domains of identity crisis Percentage Domains of personal identity crisis Percentage

Economic 28% Economic 32%

Personal 32% Personal 30%

Culture and Ethnic 18% Cultural and Ethnic 16%

Religious 12% Religious 10%

Nationality 10% Nationality 12%

AGE(18 - 31 age)

Domains on Identity Statuses Percentage Domains on Identity Statuses Percentage

Identity Achievement 28% Identity Achievement 45%

Moratorium 30% Moratorium 28%

Foreclosure 18% Foreclosure 12%

Identity Diffusion 24% Identity Diffusion 15%

It has been found that those who have made a overpowering committedness to an personal identity lean to be happier and better than those who have not. Those beside a importance of identity diffusion incline to knowingness out of location in the world and don't hunt a cognisance of personality.

Some strategies to stifle this problem

o Understand the stress of self-rule and attachment

o Keep parent-adolescent battle from state disorderly and use bang-up relations skills beside the adolescent

o Recognize the exigency of peers, juvenile organizations and mentors

o Help spring chicken a cut above see the temperament of differences, diverseness and plus point conflicts

o Let juvenile person explore their identity.

In today's hurriedly dynamical world, individuality disaster are more common today. Exploring dissimilar aspects of oneself in the contrary areas of life, together with one's role at work, inside the family and in contact can sustain boost own individuality.